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Why am I not getting any replies to my messages?

It's never fun when people don't reply, but there may be several reasons why.

  • The member has not logged in and so has not seen your message.
  • They don't have a subscription, which is necessary to read and reply.
  • They read your message but don't wish to reply.

To maximise your chances of getting a reply, don’t forget to:

  • Complete your profile by adding clear, varied photos, and regularly update it.
  • Personalise your messages to each member - try picking out something you liked about their profile.

To maximise your chances of meeting someone, you can always add the “Connect” upgrade which allows non-paying singles to read and reply to your messages.

Need more ideas? Just ask Lara, our dating coach.

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