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5 good reasons to come to a event:

  • + invites a great selection of members to each event

  • + gives each member the opportunity to bring along up to 3 of their single friends to nights and they don't have to be members

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    There are lots of events across the UK each month so you won't have to go far to find one

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    We've worked hard to choose the kinds of venues our members love

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    The great thing about events is that there are plenty of single people there just like you events take place in a familiar environment but with the comfort of knowing that there are plenty of single people to chat to and get to know better.


  • What are events?

    Our events give members the opportunity to get together at venues near them and share a drink, socialise and get to know each other. We organise two types of events: nights which are relaxed drinks in a bar and socials. nights:
    Taking place in a bar chosen by us, these relaxed evenings offer our members a chance to meet other members and their friends over a drink. socials:
    These group socials bring members together over shared interests including cookery classes, photography lessons and much more.

  • How will events help me meet great dates?

    At, our job is to give people the best possible chance of meeting someone they might not otherwise meet, whether that’s by getting to know one another through our site, or by meeting at one of our events. The events take place in venues throughout the country and have a friendly and relaxed atmosphere.

  • How does select the people invited?

    Invitees for each event are chosen on the basis of age, gender, location and other interests. This maximises your chances of having a good time and meeting someone great!

  • Are these events exclusive to members?

    Yes, events are reserved for members. However, certain nights allow you to invite up to 3 friends. These friends do not necessarily have to be members. We are unable to allow friends to be invited to socials.

  • How often do you organise events near me? is already organising regular events for members in towns and cities across the country! If you live near one of these areas and have completed your profile and uploaded a photo, you’ll have the chance to be invited to a event near you.

  • On which days of the week are events held?

    Generally, events are held during the week and typically take place after work. This is so as many people as possible are able to attend, and avoids any conflict with busy weekend social schedules.

  • Where are events held? events take place in carefully selected venues across the country. Check your emails regularly to read your invitations and register for events that suit your taste.

  • Can I take part in events outside of my area?

    At the moment, your invitations are tailored to events near you. We use a range of criteria, such as your registered postcode to select the members for each event, but check back regularly for updates.

  • Is there a charge for events?

    It is free to attend most of our nights whilst we do charge for the socials.

  • How does select the people invited?

    Invitees for each event are chosen on the basis of age, gender, location and other interests. This maximises your chances of having a good time and meeting someone great!

  • Why haven't I been invited to a event yet?

    If your profile is complete, you’ve got a photo uploaded and log into the site regularly, it’s possible we just haven’t yet held an event in your area, or that previous events in your area have filled up too quickly. Check your emails regularly to see new invitations and to register for events that best suit you.

  • How will I know if I have been invited to an event?

    Invitations are sent via email. We also list all of our upcoming events in your area in the ‘Events’ section on the website.

  • I've received an invitation to a event. How do I register?

    Registering is simple. Simply click the "RSVP" button on the email. You can also check your invitations in the "Events" section of the website. Spaces are limited and events fill up quickly, so register as soon as you can! If there is an entry fee for a social, your registration will not be confirmed until you have made your payment.

  • I would rather pay on the day. Is that possible?

    No. To take part in a social we ask that you pay in advance.

  • I have paid to take part in a social. When and how will I find out where it is being held?

    You will be sent the address for paid socials in advance by email.
    The address will also be displayed in the ‘Events’ section of the website.

  • How many people attend each event?

    In order to keep the atmosphere natural and relaxed, we don’t restrict public access to the venues where events are held. Nevertheless, the majority of people present will be single members and their guests. You can check how many people have registered for a specific event beforehand on the "Events" section of the website.

  • Can I find out who is attending the event?

    Guest lists are not provided, however, all of our events are designed to ensure that there are like-minded people at the venue.

  • Will there be an even split of men and women?

    As far as possible, works to ensure that there is an equal amount of men and women at each event.

  • How do I know I will meet people of a similar age to me?

    Age group is one of the criteria we take into account when we select members to invite.

  • What should I wear?

    The general dress code for the events is smart casual. Some members come straight from work, while others may be in smart jeans. The trick is to pick something you know you look good in and feel comfortable with, but that doesn’t look like you’ve tried too hard. For more advice about all aspects of dating, why not visit our advice portal by clicking here?

  • What should I do when I arrive? How will I know which of the people at the venue have been invited by

    Don’t worry! Someone will be there to greet you when you arrive, and will answer any questions you may have about the venue or the evening itself. Don’t be shy, remember that everyone there will be in a similar situation to you, so break the ice and start chatting to those around you.

  • At evening nights specifically, will there be someone hosting?

    There will always be a point of contact at each night to ensure that you are looked after.

  • Are there any special deals or promotions at the events?

    All our venue partners have been carefully selected to ensure we offer members a range of atmospheres, facilities and locations. Often there are special deals and promotions such as free or discounted drinks or snacks for those that arrive early – so be sure to be on time to make the most of these offers!

  • Is there a set table plan at events?

    To keep our events relaxed and informal we encourage our members to move around throughout the evening.

  • I have paid for a social, however, I'm not going to be able to attend. Can I get a refund?

    After you pay for a social we reserve a space for you. If you let us know long enough in advance, we might be able to find someone to take your place. In that case, we will refund your payment or transfer it to a future social. If you fail to show up on the day without letting us know in advance, then there will be no refund offered.

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