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30 y/o
TravelingI'm a police officer and I know that can sound intimidating, but I'm genuinely pretty laid back off duty. I like hiking, backyard fire pits, and making my own hot sauce.
19 y/o
SurfingCatch me chasing waves whenever the British weather actually allows it, useless until I've had my morning coffee. Not after anything heavy - just good vibes and seeing where it goes.
50 y/o
RunningI'm comfortable with who I am and what I want, no games, no drama. Just looking to enjoy good company and see where things go naturally.
70 y/o
ArtRetired college professor (philosophy department) and yes I know how that sounds. I'm actually pretty easy to be around and just looking for someone who likes a real conversation.
43 y/o
YogaI'm a commercial photographer, mostly corporate stuff, some real estate. I shoot for fun on weekends too, usually wherever there's interesting light. Looking for someone who appreciates the small stuff.
43 y/o
PhotographyThere's nothing I love more than capturing light and real moments, whether behind the lens or living them. Looking for someone who appreciates depth and authenticity.
33 y/o
WellnessPhysical education coach and after-school rec coordinator. I bring the same energy to trivia night that I bring to everything else, which is a lot. Looking for someone who can keep up or at least find it endearing.
23 y/o
ArtMarketing manager at a mid-size company, which means a lot of meetings I could've been emails. Nights and weekends are for pickleball, home brewing, and genuinely trying to cook more.
48 y/o
ThriftingI work in cybersecurity for a bank, fully remote, which means I'm home a lot. Looking for someone to actually eat with me instead of cooking for one.
65 y/o
LiteratureI do the crossword every morning with my coffee. Looking for someone who has their own little rituals they love and won't try to change mine.
27 y/o
MoviesI'm a physical therapist assistant and I work with post-surgical patients. Off the clock I like slow mornings, long runs, and trying to finish the book I've been reading for three months.
47 y/o
MuseumsI've learned that the good stuff in life requires intention and presence. Looking for someone ready to build something real, not just pass the time.
18 y/o
Board GamesSoftware developer who works remotely and is very intentional about leaving the house. I do CrossFit, go to farmers markets, and play in a casual chess club on Wednesday nights.
68 y/o
MuseumsI'm at a point where I can truly appreciate the moment. Looking for someone I can have real conversations with and enjoy life alongside.
45 y/o
SurfingRetired firefighter who still can't sit still. I'm usually fixing something around the house or smoking brisket on weekends. Looking for someone who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty every once in a while.
19 y/o
ArtI work in insurance and I'll be the first to admit that's not a great opener. What IS a great opener is that I also brew my own beer and I've gotten genuinely good at it.
60 y/o
Board GamesRetired librarian, which means I've probably already read the book you're about to recommend. Looking for someone who likes to talk about what they're reading and doesn't mind being disagreed with politely.
47 y/o
TravelingI'm a marine biologist at a local aquarium — yes I get asked about sharks constantly. I'm looking for someone curious about the world who can also just be okay sitting on the couch.
41 y/o
Live MusicStructural inspector — I spend most of my day in buildings nobody else goes into. After work I'm at the gym or trying to beat my neighbor at chess online. Looking for someone actually interesting.
47 y/o
BakingI fix computers for a living, mostly for people who've clicked things they shouldn't have. At home I'm cooking from scratch or watching Formula 1 — looking for someone patient with a homebody.
30 y/o
MuseumsI work as a respiratory tech and my schedule is three days on, four days off. I use those four days hard — hiking, cooking, going to my brother's kids' soccer games, and generally being outside.
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